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I’m at home with my daughter since last August. Working from home. Saanvi has enriched my life in ways more than one in the last 10 months. I pampered her more than required, I shouted on her and I cried. There have been awesome things too. I got to spend time with her more than i could ask for. Anyday once she grows up, I would have lot of stories to tell her about her childhood. Meanwhile, my daughter’s busy giving me lessons on parenting.
Fondly, I always call her my personal PTP : Patience Training Programme. Here is the series of events that happened since Last 20 Days:
Day 20 : Saanvi was sneezing non stop. I did nothing.
Day 19: Saanvi still sneezing. I gave her Allegra 5 ml. Stopped her school on that day. She played her usual self, no complaints.
Day 18: Saanvi has stopped sneezing. I did not give her any medication. She still skipped her school.
Day 17: All medication stopped completely, I sent her to school normally.
Day 14 : Her Father came from Gurgaon. All excited, she took her food normally for the next 2 days.
Day 11: Saanvi’s food intake has stopped completely. We both are worried, along with the entire family.
Day 10: Saanvi goes to the Doctor. After examination, he puts her on cough syrup for a week as she has flum and cold syrup for a week. And on Iron tonic for 3 months, as she looks very anemic. I feel so ashamed of my parenting : After staying at home for 10 months, now she is in a position to take iron tablets.
Day 9: We started Iron syrup.
Day 8 : I started Cough syrup, gave her once out of 3 times recommended.
Day 7 – Yesterday :No Cough Syrup. iron tonic administered with syringe for the last 3 days.
Day 4 – Day 1 : Total food stopped. Her entire food comprised of 1 glass milk, 4-5 spoons of rice. And water. No motion passed. I tried all possible ways and her standard answer is : “saanvi does not want any food. ” I even let her starve and she did not come back for food, making me even more guilty.
Today morning : I heard her coughing and felt the flum again. I was an idiot to think the flum will disappear on its own. Administered the cough syrup and all the flum was out as vomiting. No School today. As compensation to the scoldings she had for the past few days, going to toys shop now. Ofcourse, did not tell her this reason.
Whoever reads this, will declare that i am either the most irresponsible mother on earth, or i am just born with a mission of not following doctor’s advise. Even I thought so for a good hour today. What made me to not give her cough medicine after instruction from doctor?
1. The gut feeling that it will disappear on its own, since there are no physical symptoms.
3. Saanvi resisting any kind of medicine, making this task an unpleasant one for me to do.
All the above are true. However, I learnt few valuable lessons today :
1. No matter Saanvi looks cured the moment we come back from hospital, it’s mandatory to give her all the instructed doses until the course is complete.
2. My Laziness has to be with matters related to me, not Saanvi.
Of all the things, I’m proud of one thing I did : I finally realized that it’s not Saanvi’s fault. Although she’s tall for her age and has elder’s behavior patterns, she cannot play so many tantrums to be hungry for 3 days straight. Having this empathy with her made me realize all my other mistakes. I’m glad I did.
Have a good day and keep rocking!!
What’s bad? Your kid getting sick.
What’s worse? Administering the medicine 3 times a day for a period of time without fail.
Why am I writing about this now? My daughter has been advised to be on iron tonic for 3 months to cover her anemia. The first 2 times, she fancied drinking from the cup that comes with the tonic bottle. After her fancy subsidised, she banned the medicine. I used this trick invented by my lovely husband Vinod last year.
Here’s what you do:
1.Buy a syringe. Take the needle out.
2. One of your family members to hold the baby firmly. ( Mine was 2 years 10 months as of doing this with her.)
3. Fill the syringe with the medicine.
4. Open her mouth and administer such a small dose that she cannot spit even if she want to.
5. Keep doing step 4 until the medicine is complete.
6. Praise the kid for taking the medicine.
Bingo! and You are done.
Have a good day and keep rocking!!
I live in independent duplex house. Everyday, we have motor running for about 1 hr to 1.5 hr to keep the water flow running in the house. Yesterday was no different until my mother in law felt a burning smell coming from the motor. She switched off and we had enough water for the day. At 7 PM, my father in law saw the tap dry and asked us to switch the motor on. BANG! The motor does not run !!!!! What do we do now? As with usual Indian households, we do have our electrician numbers in a small diary. And mind you, all the numbers exist only in the diary and that is THE Scared book in our house. So, we rang to our family electrician who was out of town only to return next day morning. After filling up all the buckets in the house with help from our neighbor, we called another electrician who is a frequent to our opposite house. He came, took the motor with him and He Went. It was supposed to get fixed by today afternoon. So, the only thing I did since yesterday night was to wait to get the motor fixed. I never slept in my whole life with 1/2 bucket water in my room and did not face any water trouble so far.
Came afternoon and brought the motor. After fixing it and see the water flow, we rewarded the electrician and let him go. We had powercut for half an hour as soon as the electrician went. Once the power is back, I was hoping to have a nice bath and relax myself. As the water did not flow in any of the taps except one, the house entered in a panic mode. We called the electrician again, who said the only option is to open the pipes going to the water source and see if he can do something. If there is really no underground water, even he cannot help us. Pretty simple and straight forward. As our usual electrician was supposed to come to the city today, we let this guy go and called him. He said he would come around 5 PM. All the water that was left in the house was 1 bucket in total. I started looking out for water tanker options. Isn’t it good to have some water saved at home, if again the motor suddenly turns its back against us? Relaxed throughout the day so far, I even preached my folks that this isn’t a life emergency and we will get it fixed. My fuse blew when I started searching for water tankers. After calling almost 75 numbers in a span of 1 hour, I was frustrated and tired. Only 3 of them supplied water tankers, and none to my area. None of the numbers I missed called me back. Yeah, it’s summer and they are in water business. Quite understandable.
As my father in law came back from work, he learnt the entire story. Our usual electrician was on the way and we had lost all our hopes on him. My FIL brought another trusted electrician to check the motor. He too said that the pipes had to be opened and things need to get replaced, mostly. We argued with the decision of getting this repaired. What IF we didn’t have ground water at the end? What IF we had? Finally, at 7 PM we decided to get the pipes out and try to get it repaired.
After 2.5 hours of uncertainity and replacement of 3 parts, the motor was finally fixed. But, what was also fixed is my negligence towards water. I know what you are thinking and don’t hate me please. I never had a situation in my life where I need to be cautious OR the water in front of me was all the water I had. So, my attitude is very natural. After marriage, my husband and later my mother in law observed my water habits and nudged me to be more careful. Afterall, there is a saying that your expenses will be as good as your water spending habits. But, I always squinted them for their miserly habits and carried on with wasting water. Today is the day. What did I learn finally?
1. Water is precious. And you will only realize when you dont have it. So, if you waste it often, you will get the realization even more often.
2. We had 2 buckets and my mother in law wanted to bathe with one of the bucket water. Even Saanvi hadn’t bathed since morning. I was miffed at her choice of keeping herself clean. But, when I cooled down myself by watching some nonsense on TV, I was again drawn to my own limitation of “setting expectations” trap. And when I dropped expectations on her behavior, I turned my usual self.
3. Make your things priority. Had i bathed Saanvi in the morning, I would have water adjusted accordingly.
4. The Water Suppliers facility in Hyderabad is utterly pathetic. I wished today that i disappear from Hyderaba d for ever in all the summers.
5. Independent houses in far off areas are good – atleast for the simple reason that they have abundance of ground water supply. Apart from the privacy I enjoy, water has to be the next best reason to like my home now.
6. By evening, everyone at home was exhausted and started picking up on each other vehemantly. What I did was to go upstairs and finish up the article pending for The Rodinhoods website. That is the best thing I did today – If you cannot contribute positively, please stay away from the discussion.
7. Saanvi was at her worst from the past 2 days – ALL The food is practically rejected. So, when she rejected her dinner, all my policies went haywire. What followed was shouting on Saanvi, Saanvi crying and me crying. If I’d have taken a short break and watched the nonsense TV Again, may be I wouldn’t have put my day’s frustration out on her. Lesson learnt again.
Hopefully, my folks at home will be happy with my decision to use water judiciously.
Have a good day and keep rocking!!
I saw this recipe in ETV and wanted to make this delicious snack for all at home. That evening, I brought cow peas ( bobbarlu) and raw mango from the store. The snack turned our really really good and I was glad i tried it.
Cow peas : 250 gms, Chana Dal and Moong Dal – handful each
Raw mangoes – 2 ( Adjust according to the sour taste you can tolerate)
Cabbage – 1 small cup
Green chilli – 10
Ginger garlic paste: 2 tbsp
Mint Leaves : Bunch
Curry Leaves : Bunch
Cumin Seeds : 2 tbsp
1. Soak cow peas, Chana dal and Moong dal for 4 hours .
2. Keep few cow peas, chana dal and moong dal aside.
3. Grind all the rest of the ingredients without water to a smooth paste, except cumin seeds, mint leaves and curry leaves.
4. Add cumin seeds, curry leaves and mint leaves to the smooth batter. Add salt.
5. Put oil on the stove and make the vadas.
> I used 1 raw mango which was very sour. But, the taste just disappeared and we didn’t feel the sourness at all. So, for 250 gm, 2 mangoes is suggested.
> These taste excellent with cut onions and lemon / chilli sauce / tomato sauce.
Have a good day and keep rocking!!
The overall experience is very good today. I attribute it to two reasons :getting up in the morning and keeping my mouth considerably shut until meditation time. I wanted am answer n why I have anger at the tip of my tongue. The answer revealed in the shower. I plan to read one page of my most favorite book every single day as soon as I get up. It’s awesome to have nothing in your head and you clearly notice the breath in and breath out.